Stop Broken Hearts and Pushing Good Men Away

Today most women want to find a way to stop broken hearts and pushing men away on your journey to find Mr. Good Man. However, there can be many bumps on the road to love. Further…There are subconcious signs of male attraction that help connect a man to you emotionally. And if you miss these signs you are not using these to your advantage to get and keep the man of your dreams?

In fact, when one key emotion is missing, it can crush the passionate feelings a man feels for you…which can be the difference in your success in finding lasting love and being part of the broken hearts club.

When you become a master at being the firestarter of passion, you create that connection men crave from a woman. That said you can also kill it without even knowing it.

And igniting his passion draws him closer to you and make him chase you in a relationship until you are ready to be his. But that is only half of the story.

Can we have a little girl talk? Let me ask you a question…

Can your man turn you on even when he’s been acting like a big jerk all day or when he makes you feel unworthy or bad when he hurts your feelings?

Probably not…Unless he has radical behavior changes. And even so, those chances are fairly slim.

Today, people realize, that a woman’s most important body part is her brain when it comes to tuning to the passion in a relationship.

But a less common understanding is known that for men, the same thing is true. Because of this let’s talk about a key factor to attract emotionally.

Yeah, it’s even true…when the relationship is emotionally tense, men can still be interested in sex.

In short, what I’m talking about are the parts of the relationship that men, actually have to work really hard at.  I’m talking about the 95% of the relationship that brings mutual joy and fulfillment to both partners in a committed relationship – the non-sexual parts.

Consequently, most people don’t realize the deep impact that a man’s emotions have on his ability to be present in a relationship.

Therefore, if you want him deeply engaged, pay close attention to his mind and emotions.

That said…you are probably wondering which are the emotions that matter most to a man?  Unlike women, they are not the same.

Before you ask, I’ll tell you.  But you need to be prepared. It’s not what you might think, and you’ll probably doubt just how really important it is to a man when I tell you.

Remember, women and men experience relationships so differently.  The result is that the issues that matter most to men may seem insignificant to you.

True respect is more than just a bunch of words. It is demonstrated.

In short, in relationships, the thing affecting a man’s ability to be present and engaged is dependent on the level of respect he feels from those around him particularly his woman.

In fact, he needs to feel respect in order to experience emotional openness, being willing to work the issues, truly investing in the relationship and above all having the desire to make you happy.

Now, let me give you a real-life example.

My mentor and dating coach a few years ago described the following situation when he was in his early twenties, there were two women who were both interested in him.  Most men would consider the ladies to be attractive.

But the big difference between them was how they treated him.  Both attempted to use compliments to show interest and strike up conversations. But each ones’ approach was different.

This can make all the difference in becoming a member of the broken hearts club.

Initially, the first woman (we’ll call Stephanie) was sitting at a table with him and eight other people when she approached him.

Being in their early 20s and still basically, just kids, she giggled a lot (she did that a lot) and then whispering to her girlfriend for a few seconds before turning and flirting, with him and said, “I bet you would look really great with your shirt off.” Showing no shame for her boldness with a grin on her face.

On the other hand, the other woman (we’ll call her Nicole) approach him leaving a building walking down a sidewalk after a friend’s party. She continued to walk with him while making small talk.

Then she changed her tone of voice(getting his attention) as she grew a little more serious and said, “You really impressed me by what you said to Mike and Jenell last week.”

Next, she turned her head and looked straight into his eyes and said, “you know you will go a long way in the world with your wisdom and insight.”

Can you guess which one of them got his attention? Nicole or Stephanie?

Truth is, both got his attention.  However, only one made him feel that deep level of respect.

But when he experienced that respect from Nicole, he could envision himself in a long-term relationship with her.

In fact, the feeling of respect from her caused him to want to open up and welcome her into his life.  It made him want to promise his heart to her. 

He felt a sudden desire of deep trust for her and the desire that he never wanted to lose that respect she seemed to hold for him. 

Though Sarah got his attention as well, he felt like she viewed him a mostly a sort of plaything.

So, while he believed she really had a genuine desire to give him a compliment, he didn’t feel any respect.  He felt she was not respecting the real him.

True respect is demonstrated, and not just a bunch of words which is a little difficult to explain without some examples and in-depth explanations.

So, discover the truth that I first realized when my friend and dating coach, James Bauer, told me about the relationship concept he calls “The Respect Principle.” Many have found it to be the key to dating success.

As a result, he created an advanced training video that describes the principle and how to use it here:

See the video to learn more about the Respect Principle

In short, as a professional dating coach and love-life strategist, my goal is to offer women the tools to help them have a deeper or more powerful impact they desire in their relationships with men. 

Furthermore, the respect factor for men matters most in ways that we women just can’t see without a little understanding and training on male psychology. I think of it as the science of love.

Lastly, if you would like to eliminate your dating frustrations and learn more about how to use this concept and move towards better love relationships. Learn to use the emotion of respect in your own relationships, check out the link below to a presentation that James created on The Respect Principle.

Talk soon,

Tse

P.S. The powerful effect that the “the Respect Principle” has on every aspect of your relationships is fascinating, and once you understand it, painful experiences of broken hearts, being ghosted among others will soon be a thing of the past.

Now that you have a basic understanding about the Respect Principle, Some of my readers have tried the next level which goes more in-depth. If you want to learn more, watch this short video to discover what it takes to attract and commit your dream man into your life using this truth:

For advanced training watch the video